Mediation | A Better Way to Resolve Family Disputes

For families that are starting the separation process, who do you call first?

A few highlights of how mediation can support your separation process and puts the control back in your hands.

Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is a structured mediation process that helps separating parents resolve disputes outside of court. It is facilitated by Family Dispute Resolution Practitioners (FDRPs)—specially trained mediators who focus on practical, child-focused solutions.

Mediation is cooperative, not adversarial. Instead of battling in court, parents work together with a neutral mediator to find common ground. Sessions are confidential and encourage open communication. Unlike court, mediation allows parents to craft flexible agreements tailored to their unique family situation.

Mediation is also significantly more cost-effective than litigation. Government-funded Family Relationship Centres offer low-cost or free mediation services, while private mediators charge a fraction of what legal battles cost.

The Success of Mediation in Australia

Mediation isn’t just a good idea—it works. Studies show that over 70% of cases reach a resolution through mediation, eliminating the need for court intervention. Research by Relationships Australia found that 57.5% of parents reached an agreement on at least one major issue, and 73% were satisfied with the process.

Even when mediation doesn’t fully resolve disputes, it reduces hostility and improves communication, which benefits ongoing co-parenting relationships. The speed and efficiency of mediation mean families can move forward sooner, rather than waiting months or years for a court ruling.

The Emotional and Financial Benefits of Mediation

Mediation reduces stress and conflict, creating a more constructive environment for decision-making. Unlike litigation, mediation is focused on future solutions rather than past grievances. Parents report feeling more in control of the outcome, rather than having a judge impose decisions upon them.

Children also benefit. Mediation fosters cooperation between parents, reducing exposure to high-conflict situations. Kids who see their parents working together are more likely to experience a smoother adjustment after separation.

Take Control of Your Family’s Future

If you’re a separating parent, consider mediation before litigation. The court system is costly, slow, and emotionally draining. Mediation offers a faster, healthier, and more cost-effective way to resolve disputes.

Real Stories from Mediation Success

Sarah, mother of two: “I came into mediation full of anxiety. I left feeling relieved. We avoided court and created a parenting plan that works for both of us.”

James, father of three: “We saved thousands by choosing mediation instead of fighting in court. More importantly, we kept our kids out of the conflict.”

Lisa and Mark, co-parents: “Mediation gave us a voice and helped us communicate better. It was the best decision for our family.”

Make the Right Choice: Choose Mediation

Instead of leaving your family’s future in the hands of the court, take control. Work with a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner to find solutions that work for you and your children.

Don’t let court battles dictate your family’s future

Choose mediation and move forward with peace and clarity.

 

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